First Impressions of Nepali People – From a Chinese Friend’s Perspective

Over the past six months, my Chinese friend, Bo Yan, has been surrounded by Nepali people — through casual hangouts, parties, and shared meals. When I asked him what stood out most, he didn’t hesitate:
“Nepali people are some of the friendliest and warmest people I’ve ever met.”

A Culture of Care – Even Among Strangers

He recalled his first time attending a Nepali party.

“Even though I didn’t know the language or the music, people I’d never met before came over to check on me. They asked if I was enjoying the food, the music, the vibe. That doesn’t usually happen at Chinese gatherings. That small gesture felt really special.”

What struck him most wasn’t just kindness from friends — but care from strangers. For him, that kind of inclusion wasn't typical in most Asian cultures.

“They made me feel like I belonged, even when I didn’t understand the lyrics or the traditions.”

Extroverted Energy

He noted that most Nepali people he met were not just friendly, but easy to talk to.

“They open up about their stories, their life, their culture — even if they just met you. I think that’s rare.”

Coming from a culture that tends to be more private and reserved, this openness stood out.

“Among Asian cultures, Nepali people are definitely more extroverted and open-minded. I think it’s partially geography — you're on the border of South Asia and the Middle East. You’re not as traditionally East Asian in behavior.”

Cultural Contrast

In Chinese gatherings, he explained, people tend to stay within their own circles.

“Sure, people are kind. But they won’t always go out of their way to talk to someone new. We think a lot about privacy, social boundaries. We keep things to ourselves — it’s just how we were raised.”

But with Nepali people, he noticed a different vibe.

“People share freely. They don’t mind telling you what they’re thinking, even if you just met them. There’s a sense of warmth that makes it easy to connect.”

Final Thoughts

From a Chinese friend’s eyes, Nepali people are not just kind — they’re socially generous.
In a world where cultural differences often create distance, this kind of openness makes a lasting impact.

“To be honest,” he said, “I didn’t expect to find this kind of connection. I thought Nepali people would be very different from me. But I’ve never felt more welcomed.”